Thursday, August 21, 2008

Half Nekkid Thursday


Here's one to open up your eyes....

Friday, August 15, 2008

Happy Nekkid Thursday ( on Friday )

Happy Nekkid Thursday! ( a day late....I hang my head in shame)

T

Monday, August 4, 2008

Lap Dance anyone?

The gentleman's club , The strip club , The titty Bar whatever you wish to call it you probably have one close to home. Have you ever been to one? I have . Yes I will admit it I have been to a few not my first choice of bars but, I have been there.

When I was younger I was not happy when M.T. and his buddies went to a "club". I would think what does he need to go there for? Why does he need/want to look at other women. (immature thinking yes I understand better now) I never understood why someone would want to go look at something you can't have. I 'am not into male strippers. The only way I like to see a naked man standing in front of me is with his tool in hand asking me if I want some! anyway back to my point, M.T. would explain it's just entertainment I'm not going home with anyone he would explain just taking in the sights. Which was true. He never brought a dancer home with him. When he did come home I wasn't exactly waiting with open arms, still I was not angry , I will be honest I was insecure. Then one night I lost a bet and I had to go to a club. My opinion changed after that. This isn't so bad. I was still a little uncomfortable. But M.T. does like to look at beautiful women. No harm in that. He never checks out other women in front of me. Well I have never caught him. He never says things like" is *&%$ your friend with the big tits? "all in all he is very respectful. So I decided to get over it and let him have some fun.
At the "club" I learned the rules; No touching, No going up on stage etc. Seems like a waste of money but, hey what ever turns you on. Whenever M.T went to one of these clubs with his friends I would wind up with a bunch of T-shirts from the married guys who got lap dances. If they went home with the T-shirts their wives would be angry. they always found it strange that M.T. would tell me where he had been and even stranger still I didn't mind.

A Few years ago I threw M.T a surprise party for his birthday. I rented a bus, invited a bunch of male and female friends. I told everyone before hand at the end of the night we were going to a "club" if you didn't like you could stay on the bus or find another way home. To my surprise none of the ladies complained. I think they were all a little curious. I think the guys were happy they didn't have to hide anything." Gee honey we have to go in we don't want to be rude"

I learned a few important things that night. First thing: I was in the ladies room when I few of the dancer came in they said they thought it was great that we came out with the guys. One women said "It's great for you We do the work you get the reward" Then I realized she was right. He will be horny after looking at all the beautiful women I should take advantage and open my ....well you get the picture!

Second thing I was okay with the women onstage. I actually picked up a few moves. I realized that in a strip club yes it is okay to look. You don't have to feel guilty.

Third thing: I was not okay with the lap dance. M.T. ask one of the dancers to give me a lap dance. I was uncomfortable Do I look, do I not look. Am I supposed to be complimentary? after a few seconds I asked her to finish in front of M.T. Oh that did not sit well with me. It was hard to watch. For some reason I could not handle the dancer that close to M.T. I was jealous. I don't think he noticed it bothered me. I was trying hard not to show it. I got over it but I made a mental note not to put myself or him in that position again. It wasn't fair to him. He had done nothing wrong, in hind site it was silly to get upset. But I am human and I realized I have a jealous streak. All in all the evening went well. And no one complained about going to the club . One or two couples actually thanked me. The women understood what went on. In fact the women were so comfortable one or two flashed the crowd on the bus. Yes I did too. One guy actually gave the girls a look at his goods.

M.T. hardly ever go to the "clubs" anymore. damm no more t-shirts for me. I had not been to a club again. Figuring it best If I stay home.

Sat M.T. went out again. We had dinner and went to see some stand up comedy.Before we went home I suggested we go the "Club" next door. I had promised him last week. I would get him a professional lap dance. I never tease, so off we went. I braced my self and decided I would just not watch. Let him have some fun I told myself. Everyone deserves time off for good behavior. He should be able to look. After all this time he should be able to look at another naked body.

So we are in the club for a few minutes I realized I was more comfortable looking at the women on stage. I was very impressed by one dancer who pulled herself all the way up the pole about 8 feet Then, she slid upside down back to the stage. I 'am pretty athletic but, there is no way I could do that.
Even though I 'am fairly comfortable in my own skin now, I don't think there is anyway I could dance naked in front of a room full of strangers. I have to give the dancers a lot of credit.

I turned to M.T. and asked him "what's it going to be Blond Brunette Big tits or small? You have a room full of women to pick from."
Before he could answer a petite and pretty brunette came up to me introduced herself as Haylee and asked if I wanted anything. I declined and turn to M.T. "Honey Haylee would like to know if you would like a dance" big smile on his face "Sure"
I thought he might pass on her. Her body type was similar to mine. I thought he might go for something completely different tall blond big chest. but he seemed pleased.
I prepared myself to look in another direction when she opened his legs and stood between them. I didn't, off came her top and she began to move. I continued to watch. This time the smile that spread across M.T.'s face did not bother me. She continued to grind up against him. and I was OK. He was still smiling . I was sitting just a little behind them so I did not have to make eye contact with either of them. I was glad he was enjoying it. It' didn't turn me on but it did make me feel uneasy either. i was glad he was happy. When Haylee was finished I handed M.T. the money. We both thanked her as she walked away.
We watched the dancers for a few more minutes then M.T. asked if I was ready to go. I was indeed ready.
In the car on the way home M.T. told me he wanted me to give him a lap dance when we got home. I told I would be happy too!
I was wearing a denim skirt that barley covered my ass tank top n bra and a black lace thong. a good outfit for a lap dance.
once at home M.T. went and sat in a lounge chair on the patio. It's good chair for a lap dance . It is long enough for me to slide down him without hitting the floor.
My thong had been removed in the car. So I was free to begin. I had once again picked a few moves at the "club " and was eager to try them out! I began my bump and grind. Big big smile on M.T.'s face. I pulled my top down and gave him the titty rub on his head. At one point I pushed myself up using the arms of the chair. Swung one leg on each of his shoulders. so his face was between my legs I leaned back and slide down the length of his body. when I reached his feet I flipped over and slide up his body stopping to give his cock a little attention! Back on my feet I turn so my back was facing him bent over and grabbed my ankles and gave my butt a shake. I continued my routine until M.T. order me into the bedroom.

I didn't get twenty bucks for my effort but I was well rewarded!

Are you in favor of the lap dance? Can you watch your partner getting one? Can you handle having your partner watch you get a lap dance? Do yo prefer the professional version or do you like them in the privacy of your own home?
I would be interested to hear your thoughts on the subject.
Enjoy!
A New trainee